| Your Abusive Childhood
will affect Your Life Forever...
But it's up to you to decide how!
And sometimes that takes looking at it with new eyes...
understanding it with a grown-up heart...
and releasing it with a loving and free spirit!
If you are ever really hope to overcome it!
To heal it...release it...so that you can finally get on with your life.
I know it's hard remembering the times when you looked into the eyes of your parents and saw their anger and hatred staring back at you.
Heard their unloving words casually hurled at you...
and sometimes, their hands, their fists, their feet, their belts assaulting you.
And as much as you'd like to never think of it again, because it's easier to ignore it and pretend you survived it unscathed...we both know better.
Because as much as you'd like to forget it, you can't...
it affects everything you do!
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Therefore,
If you were the victim of childhood abuse,
chances are pretty good that it is still contaminating your
life...in one way or another.
Abuse will:
- Destroy your self esteem and cause you to either deflect love or crave it, in whatever fashion it comes into your life.
- Set you up for future abusive relationships and keep you from thinking that you deserve success, happiness, stability and peace within your life.
All very subconsciously of course.
So most likely you'll go on living a life that feels hollow in some way. Like something is missing, but you just can't figure out what that something is. Like a scratch you can't itch. A hunger you can't satisfy. A need not quite understood, but never fulfilled.
I believe what's missing is you...
because you probably checked out of your life
a very long time ago.
And you've settled for living your life in a perpetual state of anger and sadness. Often feeling guilty and undeserving, but never knowing why.
And while that might be perfectly understandable, you have to find a way to finally let it go...
You have to find a way to grab hold of it, look at it, and understand it. So that it no longer feels like something you can't fix because you don't even know why it happened, or what you did to cause it, or if you caused it, let alone how to deal with it.
In this book I offer you alternatives to that constant feeling of emptiness.
I give you numerous exercises....insights....and a voice; so that you can finally hear out-loud what's probably been running through the back of your mind
for years.
Because I know:
- If we get it up, we just might get it out of you.
- And that you can't really live a life without your past affecting your future,
- But you can decide how to look at your past differently...and that will most definitely cause it to affect your future very differently.
So I will show you how and where you sabotage your life...so that you can quit.
I do understand why you sabotage...but leaving those old wounds lie there will simply gets you more of the same, and who wants that?
That's why if you were a person who was abused, whether mentally, emotionally, physically or verbally in your childhood, know that I have lived with the same ramifications as you...and so I understand how your life feels...hollow and unsatisfying. But I found answers for my life. Remedies for my pain. And no, they're not conventional, because convention didn't solve my problems.
Convention numbed them a little, for a bit...but didn't solve them.
In this book I give you:
- Unique Insights--things you've probably never heard before;
- And Easy Exercises that you can do whenever & wherever you like.
- Along with a look into your mind and your heart, so that you can finally see what really needs fixing.
- Plus I also address your abuser in this book...because if they don't stop, the abuse just goes on and on...and nothing ever gets better.
Know that I am brutally honest with you and your abuser in this book. Some have said raw!
But I figure if that's what it takes...then that's what it takes!
We simply can't afford to keep pussy-footing around this topic.
Because it's time for you to put your demons to rest and live a life worth living...and I'm determined to help you do that!
So, if you're ready to:
Find happiness after an abusive past. Possibly even become more financially & emotionally stable. Increase your self-confidence so that you feel more deserving.
Understand that you are capable of anything & DESERVING of everything; including love.
Learn how to love openly and honestly and no longer shield yourself from being hurt, to the point that you feel almost nothing.
You need to read this book
And, if you're so fed up with the dysfunction and the numbness...and you want to actively participate in creating the life you want, not the life you have, why not try something different? It's the only thing that worked for me....and I don't mean radical...I mean spiritual, mental, emotional and yes, even soul-full.
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And for the Abusers, know that
If you are a parent who abuses your child...
The first part of this book is devoted entirely to you.
Because if you don't stop hurting people who love you...Abuse will never stop...and that's just not acceptable.
So we will discuss the different types of abuse and how abuse isn't always just physically hitting someone. Abuse can be verbal insults, angry words, and emotional withholds. It can be you just choosing not to love your child enough when they've upset you to not hurt them. It can be manipulating them by comparing them to others constantly and pointing out where they are lacking in skill, intelligence, appearance, or something else. It can be you taking away your child's toys or pets or blankets in an uncaring and abrupt manner for no really good reason other than you just did.
It can be anything that you do that hurts your child,
just because you can.
Your children are people too....They have hearts that open to you much wider than anyone else's. They have ears that listen much more closely to what you say than anyone else ever would.
They have feelings, needs, opinions and personalities that deserve to be honored,
every bit as much as yours.
And that doesn't mean you have to let them run wild and do whatever they want....because children need guidance and guidelines...but there are loving and nurturing ways to set and uphold limits. Really, there are. I'll show you how.
Know that...
Children aren't just born bad...but you can make them that way...
through your hate, your anger and your selfishness.
Because you teach them who to be!
So in this book I will share with you how your child feels, along with what you're setting them up for, and even go over why you hurt them in the first place. PLUS...I'll tell you how you can change it. It's really not that hard once you understand the why's behind it...but it does take your participation.
So I'll give you exercises, insights and alternative ways to work with your child in a healthy manner that is neither damaging to you or your child.
Abuse damages you too...don't kid yourself.
Somewhere inside of you, you already know that.
Please...
Let me help you understand, heal and cure that part of you
that causes you to hurt your children.
And yes, as I said earlier, my ways are unique, untested and somewhat unorthodox...but they work. They have worked for many people that I have shared them with over the years, and they worked for me...and I was quite a mess too some years ago. So I understand this, inside and out!
Therefore, if you feel it's time that you:
- Contribute to both society and your family in a positive way.
- Become the person you'd really like to be instead of the person you've always been.
- Know that you're doing the very best you are capable of doing, right now, at this moment in time.
- And learn to love more, and hurt less...
Please...take a look at this book.
It really is that simple....
Stopping abuse isn't hard...
it just takes you to help make it so.
And please...please remember,
People are dying every day...
people are being beaten to death by people
who are supposed to love them...
People who also never imagined it would go that far!
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By and large I know that we're good people and we care...
so we have to do something....we have to refuse to let it just continue to happen.
It simply has to become a priority to us all.
We can change this
We can stop allowing children to be hurt
And we can stop our own pain from ruining our lives.
All it takes is for us to try...perhaps something different, something new...
but something!
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